The First Day Jitters
The beginning of a new school year can
be the start of a journey toward success if parents, students and
teachers work together. Here are some suggestions from NEA for parents
who want to help their child start the new school year right.
Start talking now about the upcoming school year
and the first day of classes. Discuss what to expect on the first
day—catching up with old friends and meeting new ones, learning
classroom rules and finding out what's ahead. Take note of how you feel
about your child going off to school. If you're anxious, try not to let
it show!
If you're new to the area, take time to visit the
school before classes begin. Walk, drive or show your child the bus
route to familiarize him or her with the trip to school.
Getting to Know You
Make time to get to know your child's teacher and
classroom aide. Let the teacher know that you appreciate feedback on
your child's progress—both positive and negative. Alert the teacher to
anything out of the ordinary that's going on with your child or family.
Make a point of meeting other school staff members: the principal,
school secretary, bus driver, cafeteria staff and others who work at the
school. The better you know the school and how it operates, the more
likely your child will be to have a productive and positive school
experience.
A Place of One's Own
Whether it's a bedroom desk or the kitchen table,
every child needs a regular place to study and complete homework. This
area should be well lighted and equipped with school supplies like
paper, pencils and a dictionary. Siblings should respect the time set
aside for studying and not distract the child who is doing homework.
Kids (and Parents) Love Routines
Set aside a specific time for studying every
night. Discuss with your child what time of day would work best. Right
after school? Just before dinner? Immediately following dinner? If your
child attends an after-school program, find out if students will be
expected to do homework there. If your child completes homework
assignments away from home, plan to review the work at a set time every
night. If homework has already been completed, have the child use study
time for reading or reviewing problem areas.
Create High Expectations
To learn, children must believe that they can
learn. As the parent, you are the most important adult in your child's
life. The feedback you give your child—what you say and do about his
or her abilities—will have a lasting impact on your child's
self-confidence. Be encouraging and praise your child for the amount of
effort that he puts into a project. Let her know that doing her best is
what counts.
Reading Can Be Contagious
Research shows that children who are read to in
their early years do better in school. Make reading a habit in your
home, for both you and your child. Each night before bed, read to your
child for at least 20 minutes. If the child is learning to read, ask him
or her to read to you. For older children, set 30 minutes aside each
night for family reading time when everyone reads together silently.
Keep plenty of reading materials available—books, magazines and
newspapers. Let your kids see you reading and they're more likely to
pick up the habit.
Be Prepared for Your Next Parent–Teacher
Conference
Talk with your child beforehand about what she
thinks are her best subjects or what he likes least. Find out if your
child has anything that he or she would like you to ask. Write down your
own list of questions. Feel free to ask about your child's progress or
about anything you don't understand about the school program. Expect the
teacher to show you samples of your son's or daughter's work and to
discuss how student progress is measured. Ask how your child interacts
with other students. Most importantly, talk to the teacher about ways
you can work together to help your child.
Schools + Communities = Success
To be effective, schools need the support of
parents and the community. Find out key dates during the year when there
will be opportunities for you to participate in school events. Mark your
family calendar and your personal datebook now to hold those dates.
Look for specific ways that you can support your
child's school. Volunteer a few hours a week in the classroom. Offer to
speak to your child's class (or others) about a special hobby or area of
expertise. Encourage a local business to adopt your child's school. Join
the PTA to ensure that you have a voice in the work of the school. Offer
to help with a special school project. Organize a school beautification
day.