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The History of Mother's DayHistorians claim that the holiday of Mother's Day emerged from the ancient festivals dedicated to mother goddess.

In the ancient Greek empire, Rhea, the wife of Cronus, and mother of Gods and Goddesses, was worshipped. 

In Rome too, Cybele, a mother Goddesses, was worshipped, as early as 250 BC. It was known as Hilaria, and it lasted for three days, called the Ides of March, that is from March 15 to March 18. 

However, neither of them meant for the honoring of our immediate mothers, as is done in our Mother's Day.  

Rather more closely aligned to our Mother's Day, is the "Mothering Sunday". England observed "Mothering Sunday", or the "Mid-Lent-Sunday, on the fourth Sunday in Lent. 

In the United States, Anna M. Jarvis (1864-1948) is credited with bringing in the celebration of Mother's day. 

And, to know about the way the idea took roots in the United States; how it came to be observed for the first time; and how the undaunted spirit and unbounded love for her mother led to fulfill the dreams of Anna Jarvis, the mother of Mother's Day... 

 


Happy Mother's DayMake a note of something she says she'd like to have and buy it for her (if you can afford it.) Don't forget to add your personal touch such as flowers or a handmade card or craft. Color a page from our collection of coloring pages. Award her a certificate for Best Mom or print out some coupons to give to her.

Above all, spend time with your mother and make her feel special.  Fix her breakfast in bed or invite her over for dinner.  Plan a family outing, such as a picnic.

MOTHER

"M" is for the million things she gave me,
"O" means only that she's growing old,
"T" is for the tears she shed to save me,
"H" is for her heart of purest gold;
"E" is for her eyes, with love-light shining,
"R" means right, and right she'll always be,

Put them all together, they spell
"MOTHER,"
A word that means the world to me.

Howard Johnson (c. 1915)

Mother's Day Trivia

  • The number of women having babies each year is about 4.3 million. 450,000 are teens and more than 100,000 are 40 or over.

  • The median age of the first birth is 25.2. The odds of delivery twins are one in 31. Having triplets or multiple births is approximately one in 539.

  • August has the highest number of births. The most popular day of the week to have a baby is Tuesday.

  • The mother having the most babies is the first wife of Feodor Vassilyev of Russia (1707 – 1783). She delivered 27 times and gave birth to 69 children: 16 pairs of twins, seven sets of triplets, and four sets of quadruplets. Sixty seven of them survived infancy.

  • Jenna Cotton gave birth to three children on the same date, October 2. A son was born in 2003 and 2006 and a daughter was born in 2007. The odds of having three children on the same date in different years are 7.5 million to one.

  • Jayne Blecley holds the record for the shortest interval between two children born in separate confinements. She gave birth to a son on Sept. 3, 1999 and a daughter on March 30, 2000 – 207 days apart!  I know, do the math and it doesn’t seem possible.

  • Elizabeth Buttle holds the record for the longest time period between births. A daughter was born on May 19, 1956 and a son was born 41 years, 185 days later. She was 60 on the birth of her second child.


To All The Mothers...

This is for all the mothers who froze their buns off on metal bleachers at football games Friday night instead of watching from cars, so that when their kids asked, "Did you see me?" they could say,  "Of course, I wouldn't have missed it for the world," and mean it.

This is for all the mothers who have sat up all night with sick toddlers in their arms, wiping up barf laced with Oscar Mayer wieners and cherry Kool-Aid saying, "It's OK honey, Mommy's here."

This is for all the mothers of Kosovo who fled in the night and can't find their children.

This is for the mothers who gave birth to babies they'll never see. And the mothers who took those babies and made them homes.

For all the mothers of the victims of the Colorado shooting, and the mothers of the murderers. For the mothers of the survivors, and the mothers who sat in front of their TV's in horror, hugging their child who just came home from school, safely.

For all the mothers who run carpools and make cookies and sew Halloween costumes. And all the mothers who DON'T.

What makes a good Mother anyway? Is it patience? Compassion? Broad hips?  The ability to nurse a baby, cook dinner, and sew a button on a shirt, all at the same time? Or is it heart?  Is it the ache you feel when you watch your son or daughter disappear down the street, walking to School alone for the very first time? The jolt that  takes you from sleep to dread, from bed to crib at 2 A.M. to put your hand on the back of a sleeping baby?     The need to flee from wherever you are and hug your child when you hear news of a school shooting, a fire, a car accident, a baby dying?

This is for all the mothers that sat down with their children and explained all about making babies. And for all the mothers who wanted to but just couldn't.

This is for reading "Goodnight, Moon" twice a night for a year. And then reading it again. "Just one more time."

This is for all the mothers who mess up. Who yell at their kids in the grocery store and swat them in despair and stomp their feet like a tired two-year old who wants ice cream before dinner.

This is for all the mothers who taught their daughters to tie their shoelaces before they started school. And for all the mothers who opted for Velcro instead.

For all the mothers who bite their lips -- sometimes until they bleed -- when their 14-year-olds dye their hair green.  Who lock themselves in the bathroom when babies keep crying and won't stop.

This is for all the mothers who show up at work with spit-up in their hair and milk stains on their blouses and diapers in their purse. This is for all the mothers who teach their sons to cook and their daughters to sink a jump shot.

This is for all mothers whose heads turn automatically when a little voice calls "Mom?" in a crowd, even though they know their own offspring are at home.

This is for mothers who put pinwheels and teddy bears on their children's graves.

This is for mothers whose children have gone astray, who can't find the words to reach them.

This is for all the mothers who sent their sons to school with stomachaches, assuring them they'd be just FINE once they got there, only to get calls from the school nurse and hour later asking them to please pick them up. Right away.

This is for young mothers stumbling through diaper changes and sleep deprivation. And mature mothers learning to let go. For working mothers and stay-at-home mothers. Single mothers and married mothers. Mothers with money, mothers without. This is for you all. So hang in there.

 Please pass along to all the moms in your life.  "Home" is what catches you when we fall - and we all fall. PLEASE PASS THIS TO A WONDERFUL MOTHER YOU KNOW.

Author Unknown
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